A Messy Breakup: What now?

The number of adults choosing to live together, but not marry, is increasing. Inevitably, a certain number of these relationships will end. When a marriage breaks up, the path is clear - a divorce. When a domestic partnership breaks up, the path can be much less clear, but just as difficult.

First, the couple should determine whether their relationship would be considered a common law marriage. If so, then a legal divorce might be required. Be sure to check the laws of your state before proceeding.

Even if the relationship does not constitute a common law marriage, there might be financial entanglements that are difficult to resolve. Is there property that is jointly owned? Is there a lease signed by both parties? Have credit accounts been shared? It can be very difficult to unravel these financial commitments when faced with the turmoil of a breakup.

In some cases, the complexity of the division of assets and liabilities (debts) can mirror that of a divorce. However, as it’s not a divorce, the same legal guidelines don’t apply. Couples are generally left to muddle through it on their own.

Fortunately, there is a better way - MEDIATION. Mediation is a private and controlled process facilitated by a trained neutral party - the mediator. If an agreement is reached in mediation, the mediator writes up the agreement and both parties sign. The resulting Mediated Settlement Agreement is a legally binding document, enforceable like any other contract.

At Barahona Consulting & Mediation we have the knowledge and experience to help couples as they work through the uncoupling process. We are committed to providing our clients the best possible experience during this difficult time.

BARAHONA CONSULTING & MEDIATION

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